ketika aku berbicara

wondering… if one day soon we become a father/mother…. what do we expect from our son/daughter… i’m sure every father/mother in the world want their son/daughter show a good manner… if they don’t can we just simply cursed them for not behaving like what we want??? simply not future father/mother… why??? everythin simply started with ourselves first… if we shaped ourselves with bad example for sure they will copy down our action (most cases)…

we ask our son/daughter to pray but we actually not praying…so can we blamed them if they dont want to obey our advise…

kita menyuruh anak-nak kita menutup aurat pada masa yang sama kita masih lagi mendedahkan aurat kita…masihkah kita perlu menyalahkan mereka menerima nasihat kita???

we asked our son/daughter to show respect to older people at the same time we didnot show respect to our parents..can we blamed them…

kita menyuruh mereka menjaga batasan pergaulan lelaki/perempuan yang bukan mahram…dalam masa yang sama kita sendiri tidak melakukan perkara itu…patutkah mereka disalahkan???

it is not about hukum itself…the hukum is already stated in alquran and hadith… it is mainly about how actions can influence others…

actions speak louder than talking without action…

how can a bend stick produced a straight shadow…

if we want to see people around us show a good manner we must started with ourselves to imfluence them…

the history has shown that actions can influenced others just like how prophet PBUH convey islam through his qudwah/attitude…

this is just my opinion and its not related to anybody…

it is not easy to shape other people without showing the actions on what we are talking about….if we asked them to show respect we must first showed respect to other…

just my poorly thought to think about and reflacted ourselves… just an opinion when suddenly the idea came around… all the good things come from Allah and the bad things come from Allah but through my weaknesses…